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Holiday Depression

Nov 17, 2011   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Blog, Health and Conscious Living  |  No Comments

Holiday Depression by Ray Doktor, Psy. D. Read more...

Understanding women’s orgasms and sexuality

Oct 4, 2011   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Blog, Sacred Sexuality  |  No Comments

Sexuality is the highest expression of human pleasure, expression, and connection and yet there is so much confusion surrounded it. Because of ignorance, lack of education, and fear, sexuality has been either exploited or ignored. To understand women’s sexuality, it is important to recognize what women have experienced as a collective whole and how they have been influenced by history and our culture. Read more...

Keeping the passion and attraction alive

Sep 2, 2011   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Blog, Relationships  |  No Comments

Why do some intimate partners end up feeling more like roommates? How come the passion diminishes after a couple has been together for awhile? Read more...

Making love all day long

Sep 2, 2011   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Blog, Sacred Sexuality  |  No Comments

When most people think of making love, they think of the act of having sex. However, making love and having sex could be experienced as two separate acts. Making love might be a more intimate exchange that is felt in the heart. Whereas “just” having sex might feel more mechanical and disconnected. We can enjoy both aspects but this takes a level of consciousness and intention. Read more...

The Skillful Art of Sacred Sexuality, Communication, and Healing

May 12, 2011   |   by admin   |   Sacred Sexuality  |  1 Comment

The Skillful Art of Sacred Sexuality, Tantra, Communication, and Healing

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The Art of Happiness

Apr 28, 2011   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Law of Attraction, Relationships  |  No Comments

At most law of attraction workshops I teach, people are trying to attract better relationships and more money without being aware of the core experiences that they desire. It is like their minds are focused on the map rather than the territory. In other words their focus is on attracting a partner or new job rather than connecting to the experience of joy, happiness, or love from being in a loving relationship or a job he/she is passionate about. Read more...

From ego-based relationships to the tantric path

Nov 29, 2010   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Blog, Sacred Sexuality  |  No Comments
First Stage: This is ego-based. We all need to go through this stage in early childhood in order to know what we like and don’t like. It is important to go through separation from our givers to develop our own sense of self. However, the “self” is still immature and more concerned with personal needs rather than sharing or connecting to “all”. In relationships it is about is about what you can do for me. It is about controlling another or being controlled.  This might be the macho man and submissive housewife relationship. The relationship is about codependence or how you complete me.

Second Stage: This could be woman who develops her own career and no longer depends on a man. It could be the man who goes on a sabbatical and develops his spiritual self. They are seeking to feel complete or develop a part of themselves that they have never experienced. They seek harmony and compromise. In relationships they form boundaries in order to function without creating confrontation.  They might be more interested in creating a partnership to raise kids. There might not be much sexual attraction because their energies have either shifted out of balance or they have diffused each other because of their complacency. Read more...

How to Communicate With Challenging People

Nov 22, 2010   |   by admin   |   Communication  |  No Comments

All communication is a reflection of your inner world. When you communicate with your heart the more you are in alignment with your truth and path. The more you are in alignment with your truth, the closer you are a vibrational match to attract that which you desire. And when you communicate from your heart, the outcome of the conversation has the opportunity to birth unexpected miracles. Read more...

The Law of Attraction is working right NOW

Nov 9, 2010   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Blog, Law of Attraction  |  No Comments

You do not attract what you want. You attract what you are! People who make money effortlessly never thought that they couldn’t. They never had an issue with money. Therefore, money never had an issue with them. People who are always involved in intimate relationships never thought that they would be without a partner. Therefore, there is never a shortage of men/women to their liking. Read more...

The Secret Behind “The Secret”

Sep 21, 2010   |   by Dr. Ray   |   Law of Attraction  |  No Comments

Whether we are seeking better health, stronger relationships, or more money, the movie “The Secret” demonstrates how powerful our thoughts are and how reality is created. The premise of the movie is that we all are creating our reality by how we direct our thoughts. Whatever we focus on the most is what we will experience. If we expend energy on what it is that we do not want, we will experience more of what it is we do not want. Directing our awareness toward what it is we do want will be the impetus for us to experience unlimited possibilities. Read more...

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