Staying sexy, fun, and feminine regardless of what you do! Join me for my first public online show for mothers and career women! During the show, I encourage you to ask questions which I’ll answer during the show! I look forward to hearing from you and listening to what’s on your mind!

Join Dr. Ray live Monday May 7th from 730pm to 8pm PST. @ http://www.ustream.tv/user/DrRayDoktor

Or you can watch and ask me questions directly from my Facebook Page here: https://www.facebook.com/DrRayDoktor/app_196506863720166

Dr. Ray will share his theories, experiences, and tools to better assist active women in the world. You are able to email him during the webinar.

Dr. Ray is a marriage counselor, relationship coach, and life coach, specializing in relationships, intimacy, sexuality, and spiritual psychology. He has shared the same stages with Eckhart Tolle and Marianne Williamson. Visit him @ raydoktor.com and wholeminds.com

Listen to Dr. Ray and Alisa K cover topics:

• How do I incorporate play into my busy schedule?
• I enjoy my independence. Will I loose it if I fall in love?
• How do I become more anchored in a career while remaining feminine?
• How can we guide our daughters to strive for balance?
• What are ways to invite men to be more masculine and grounded for us?

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Cost of workshop is $12. It is @ Reed Park. Tuesday April 17th 730-9:30pm.

• The law of pure potentiality 
There is no separation between you and the field of energy. The field of pure potentiality is your own self. The more that you experience your true nature, the closer you are to the field of pure potentiality.
• The law of giving 
Money is really a symbol of the life energy that we share and exchange. The exchange of love or a service that we provide for others is energy that floats back into our lives. The gifts of caring, attention, affection, appreciation, and love are some of the most precious gifts. We can never out give God. There is always reciprocation.
• The law of karma or cause and effect 
If we want to create happiness in our lives, we must learn to sow the seeds of happiness. Therefore, karma implies that action is of conscious choice making. Karma can be transmuted by paying it; by using it to help others; and, transcending it through spiritual practices.
• The law of least effort 
Nature’s intelligence functions effortlessly, frictionlessly, spontaneously. Least effort is expended when your actions are motivated by love because nature is held together by the energy of love.
• The law of intention and desire Your intent is most important behind thoughts and desires. As long as you do not violate the other laws of nature, through your intent you can literally command the laws of nature to fulfill your dreams.
• The law of detachment 
The law of detachment says that in order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to the results. Detachment is based on the unquestioning belief in the power of your true self.
• The law of dharma or purpose in life 
The law of dharma says that we have taken manifestation in physical form to fulfill a purpose. The field of pure potentiality is divinity in its essence, and the divine takes human form to fulfill a purpose. When you combine the ability to express your unique talent/purpose with service to humanity, then you make full use of the law of dharma.

Reed Park Auditorium East 1150 Lincoln Blvd Santa Monica, CA 90403. It will say Joslyn Hall on the building. If you mapquest or put this location in your navigating system, it will put you on Lincoln by a playhouse. However, the building is actually on 7th St. The room we will be using is directly across from 1132 7th St. Between California and Wilshire. The building is light green. It is next to the tennis courts. Parking is free at the meters and places where there are not meters. You can park on Wilshire, Lincoln, 7th St. or California. It is a short walk to the building even if you park a block away.

The longer nights have assisted you in going within to take inventory of what has been. You have worked in the soil of your own garden. Now, it is time to spread your magnificent, colorful wings and take your flight. You have digested experiences during winter sleep and another transformation is ready to be expressed. Springtime is here and all is blossoming!

How will you invest this cosmic budding energy in you?

The feminine embodies the energies of the changing seasons. You go through these seasons shedding your skin and renewing yourself.

Are you aware of your changing nature?

Are you aware of the shifts occurring within as the energy of your surroundings blossom into spring?

Consciously embracing natural cycles allows us to leave behind that which is no longer ‘in season’. This empowers us to take advantage of the emerging opportunities to experience and express our next evolution as feminine beings and channels of the Divine.

This WOMEN’S only seminar is about honoring the natural cycles of nature within and out, connecting to ritual, releasing the old, and opening every fiber of your being to the new. Whether your resurrection is to redirect your focus regarding a relationship, career, money, or health, connecting to ritual will assist you on your path.

Topic will include:

What did winter teach you?
What do you envision for in spring?
How can we make the most of it by attuning to spring’s natural rhythm of blossoming?
Awakening sensuality within and connecting to purpose
Cultivating a positive body image
Connecting to your personal divine goddess

Date / Time / Location

Tuesday April 12th, 7:30pm to 9:30pm. The cost is $15.
At the new visionary community in Glendale:
1609 Capistrano Ave., Glendale, 91208 (this is a private residence. Parking is easy:)
Please bring a yoga mat, blanket, or anything else you need to sit comfortably.
The workshop will be lead by Gemini Ferrie and Dr. Ray.

Gemini Ferrie is a spiritual psychologist specializing in Joyology: Sustainable Joy. Through her training and her own healing adventure over the last decade, she has developed the system of ‘inner teamwork’, in which all aspects within the self learn to work together harmoniously toward the same heart-centered visions – thus resulting in Sustainable Joy. Gemini Ferrie teaches Joyology through workshops and her private practice in Glendale, CA. For more info visit: geminiferrie.com

Ray Doktor, Psy. D., has extensive training working with women. He has a master’s degree in counseling psychology and a doctorate in clinical psychology. Other training and education includes: gestalt therapy, somatic experience, EMDR, NLP, hypnosis, meditation, qi gong, tantra. He has conducted workshops and lectures in the United States, Netherlands, Brazil, and England, including speaking engagements at UCLA and UC Berkley. He has shared the same stages with Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, and Eckhart Tolle. For more info visit: raydoktor.com

All communication and circumstances are a reflection of your inner world. Nothing changes until your perceptions do. The way that you interpret information determines how you will respond. If you perceive an experience as benign or neutral, your perception of the circumstances could be calm and objective.

The way that we feel is often a response to the social circuitry of our brain. Our brain is constantly assessing, judging, and trying to categorize the outer world for safety and understanding. If we constantly perceive life in survival mode, when do thrive and experience happiness?

The more happiness you experience in conversations, the more you are in alignment with your truth. The more you are in alignment with your truth, the closer you are a vibrational match to attract that which you desire.

May’s workshop will be about attracting better experiences when we are faced with challenging people and circumstances. It is about entering our inner world to change the negative story. Creating harmony in any interpersonal relationship depends on our ability to self-regulate and to continue an internal dialogue with ourselves that reflects love and peace.

Topics will include:

• Communicating with challenging people
• Entering life of mystery
• Segment attending
• Time line therapy
• The power of now

Workshop is @ Reed Park Auditorium East (Joselyn Hall)
1150 Lincoln Blvd 
Santa Monica, CA 90403 

If you mapquest or put this location in your navigating system, it will put you on Lincoln by a playhouse. However, the building is actually on 7th St. The room we will be using is directly across from 1132 7th St. Between California and Wilshire. The building is light green. It is next to the tennis courts. Parking is free at the meters and places where there are not meters. You can park on Wilshire, Lincoln, 7th St. or California. It is a short walk to the building even if you park a block away.

Dr. Ray reminds us in the video clip how important the beginning of the day is – that how you set up your morning will be the template for the rest of the day.

When talking about past relationships, people almost always remember how wonderful the beginning was (the honeymoon period), how painful the end was, and question what happened in between. In counseling, couples often they say they wish they could go back to when it was more fun and harmonious. But can the end of a relationship be valuable too?

Yes.

The distress experienced at the end of a relationship is in the form of resistance to new circumstances or feelings—loneliness, sadness, and often a misbelief that we did something wrong because it ended. It’s easy to get caught up in the story of how or why it didn’t work: “I guess they weren’t ‘the one,’” or “they changed into someone else,” or “I’m not good enough.” When we’re stuck in the past, there is no new awareness, or positive movement in your life. Self-defeating thoughts can lead to depression and affect other areas of your life too. Our self-protection mechanisms can over-react and sometimes we avoid becoming intimate again. That’s like never growing orchids because they are temperamental and eventually die. Would you be bummed about the leaves turning yellow and falling off a tree or would you honor the seasonal changes?

Why not celebrate the seasons of your relationship?

The end of a relationship is fertile soil to learn about us—our True Selves. It is an opportunity to be vulnerable and reflective, while observing our natural reactions as human beings without over-identifying with them. We can recognize recurring, negative patterns and seek healthy ways to change them. We can also remember the beautiful qualities of our ex-partners. Not from a place of needing them back—instead as a reflection of the same aspect in us, which attracted them. This brings a new awareness to the purpose of the partnership during that season of our life.

Is it possible the end of relationships is where we grow the most?

Come join Dr. Ray, Brad The Love Coach, and Corey Jenkins on a journey toward healing and understanding—including the end of relationships!

Listen to Dr. Ray, Brad The Love Coach, and Corey Jenkins @ http://raydoktor.com/attracting-a-strong-and-sensitive-man-podcast/

Topics will include:

• Changing perceptions: Is it the end, or the beginning of something new?
• Recognizing recurring themes in all your past relationships
• Understanding the higher learning in the process
• Connecting to empowerment and changing the story
• Identifying exactly what you desire NOW
• Creating a release ceremony

When: Tuesday February 21st, from 7:00 – 930pm

Where: Douglas Park, 2439 Wilshire Blvd, Santa Monica, CA 90403.

The room is called the Clubhouse and is on the corner of Chelsea and Wilshire. This is a beautiful park. The room is cozy and private. All meters are free after 6pm.

What: Lecture, sharing, processing, and exercises to help you understand and heal more effectively

NOTE: To assure seating and accurate attendance, you can purchase tickets online for $20 @ http://healingaheartbreak.eventbrite.com/

Those whom purchase tickets in advance receive priority seating. It is $25 at the door.

The most empowering and uplifting relationships are built on knowing where you and your potential partner are energetically. If your earlier childhood experiences with masculine energy were inconsistent, disruptive, or disempowering, there is a chance you might be attracting the same experiences NOW. To have a new experience requires you to begin to understand your inner dialogue and identify your essence which may be buried beneath years of conditioning. When you do, communication, strength and sensitivity take on a whole new meaning. Attracting a partner becomes simple because your only job is to communicate openly from the most authentic place inside you. The epicenter of who you truly are will attract men even if they don’t understand why. Potential partners will show up as gentle, compassionate and understanding to match your authenticity. Then all you have to do is choose who you want to spend your time with.

All communication stems from an energetic source. This includes body language, facial gestures, and words. Loving and communication is an art rather than a skill—meaning that it comes through you naturally when you’re not trying too hard. It takes introspection, an open mind and heart, and tools to effectively attract a sexy spiritual partner.

Attracting a strong and sensitive partner can be learned through understanding your body, sensory perceptions, and your essence to naturally BE LOVE.

Dr. Ray, Brad Swanson, and Corey Jenkins will share their personal experiences in this teleseminar

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The most empowering and uplifting relationships are built on knowing where you and your potential partner are energetically. If your earlier childhood experiences with masculine energy were inconsistent, disruptive, or disempowering, there is a chance you might be attracting the same experiences NOW. To have a new experience requires you to begin to understand your inner dialogue and identify your essence which may be buried beneath years of conditioning. When you do, communication, strength and sensitivity take on a whole new meaning. Attracting a partner becomes simple because your only job is to communicate openly from the most authentic place inside you. The epicenter of who you truly are will attract men even if they don’t understand why. Potential partners will show up as gentle, compassionate and understanding to match your authenticity. Then all you have to do is choose who you want to spend your time with.

All communication stems from an energetic source. This includes body language, facial gestures, and words. Loving and communication is an art rather than a skill—meaning that it comes through you naturally when you’re not trying too hard. It takes introspection, an open mind and heart, and tools to effectively attract a sexy spiritual partner.

Attracting a strong and sensitive partner can be learned through understanding your body, sensory perceptions, and your essence to naturally BE LOVE.

Dr. Ray, Brad Swanson, and Corey Jenkins will share their personal experiences in this FREE teleseminar on Monday January 23rd from 730pm 845pm. This includes answering questions from listeners.

Call 1-218-862-6789. The Conference Code is 229015

Topics will include:

• Why do many women reject sensitive men?
• Why are men afraid to be sensitive
• How to invite your man to be more sensitive.
• Are men really intimidated by successful women?
• What do men really want at the end of the day?

Ray Doktor, Psy. D. is a marriage counselor, relationship coach, spiritual therapist, and hypnotherapist who specializes in communication relationships, stress and anxiety, emotional trauma, and spiritual psychology. Dr. Ray connects to his audience by using humor, personal stories, and clinical experience. He has a doctorate in clinical psychology and practices in Santa Monica, CA. He has conducted workshops and lectures in the United States, Netherlands, Brazil, and England, including speaking engagements at UCLA and UC Berkley. He has shared the same stages with Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, and Eckhart Tolle. Please visit wholeminds.com and raydoktor.com for more information.

Corey Jenkins is co-host of TheMaleRoom.TV, a Consultant and Creator of http://LifewithAwareness.com. On the show, and in his customized programs, his primary purpose is to support you remembering who you truly are and bringing that to your relationships and work. “That is life with Awareness—with a capital ‘A,’” he says. Audiences and clients love working with Corey because he has been the student and the teacher. After making his tangible world dreams come true including his business career and romantic life, a series of higher consciousness experiences trumped anything he “achieved” to show him there was something more. After immersing himself in personal and relationship development programs and traveling the world to meet with teachers and guru’s, he discovered they all lead to the same place—back to the Self—the true Self. Corey now dedicates his life to helping individuals, couples, and groups to create the experience they were born to have. His work is influenced by Abraham Maslow, Eckhart Tolle and 12 step programs.

Brad Swanson has a business degree from the University of Colorado, Boulder. He started his own self-awareness and spiritual training with a company called Landmark Education in 1994. The Landmark Forum completely altered Brad’s life forever when he was only 21. Brad went on to participate with Landmark and it’s programs for the next 15 years by becoming a Certified Introduction Leader, assisting in over 75 of it’s programs, becoming a staff member, donating well over 1500 hours of his time to the company, and being trained by the top leaders in the organization. Brad honed his skills from this training to become a Professional Love Coach working with men, women, couples, celebrities, and top business owners. He is the Creator and Co-Host of The Male Room.TV where he and partner Corey Jenkins are revolutionizing what it means to be an authentic man. Brad has been a regular guest expert on Dyan Cannon’s (3 time Academy Award Nominee) new show “Get Your Luv On” filmed at CBS Studios, also “The Speel It Show” with Executive Producer Bam Erikson and on “Naked Talk Radio” with Elaina McMillan in Denver, CO. Brad was also filmed by Bravo for his own show this past year as a love coach. Brad’s philosophy “Love is not a concept”.

Come bring in the 2012 by releasing the old, celebrating what you learned, and setting your intentions for the New Year. The workshop will be on Tuesday January 17th from 730pm to 915pm. Cost is $10

Topics will include:

• Releasing the past to bring in the new
• Celebrating and understand last year
• Creating rituals to support yourself
• Building your dream team
• Setting your intentions for 2012

See what others are saying about Dr. Ray’s workshops @http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pl5IKHayCUI
This group is for the novice and experienced.
This interactive group is structured to answer questions, learn new techniques, and to have members participate and share positive energy and feedback.

Reed Park Auditorium East 1150 Lincoln Blvd Santa Monica, CA 90403. If you mapquest or put this location in your navigating system, it will put you on Lincoln by a playhouse. However, the building is actually on 7th St. The room we will be using is directly across from 1132 7th St. Between California and Wilshire. The building is light green. It is next to the tennis courts. Parking is free at the meters and places where there are not meters. You can park on Wilshire, Lincoln, 7th St. or California. It is a short walk to the building even if you park a block away.

This recording includes:

• Tools to manage stress and handle challenges more effectively
• What do you need to surrender or release?
• What did this year teach you?
• What do you anticipate or need to integrate?
• What do you envision for winter?
• How can you make the most out of the winter months and tune into the natural rhythm of nature?
• Connecting to purpose and happiness

Listen to the recording below: