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Ray Doktor, Psy D
From Roommates to Soulmates: Rethinking Traditional Therapy by Ray Doktor, Psy. D.
When couples step into traditional therapy, the journey can be long and strenuous. If they're on the brink of a breakup or buried under layers of anger, therapists may find themselves wading through...
Embracing Change: Navigating Modern Coaching Challenges by Ray Doktor, Psy.D.
I have been fortunate to flourish as a coach during the pioneering days of self-development. It was a dynamic time when my finances, depth of work, value provided, and network expanded each year. I...
Preserving Innocence: Empowering Children with Joy, Non-Attachment, and Curiosity for Life’s Challenges by Ray Doktor, Psy. D.
For some parents, preserving innocence means protecting their children from exposure to sexual, violent, or adult content until they reach their teenage years. Others aim to keep their children in...
WHAT IF YOU’RE SO SPIRITUAL, YOU’RE NO EARTHLY GOOD? By Ray Doktor, Psy. D
We can see that many Eastern practices, when transplanted into Western culture, face a significant challenge. These practices are, in essence, constructed on a different cultural, philosophical, and...
What if my child is socially awkward and I don’t even realize it? By Ray Doktor, Psy. D
I am a strong advocate for homeschooling, and I understand parents' desire to control their children's educational experiences. However, parents may overlook an essential part of the learning...
Parenting from the Inside Out: Facing Your Fears and Healing Your Emotional Landscape By Ray Doktor, Psy. D
As parents, we often harbor fears and uncertainties about our abilities to raise and nurture our children. We may question our competence, worry about becoming like our own parents, or fear that our...
Uprooting the Weeds of Our Triggers and Insecurities: A Journey Towards Lasting Change by Ray Doktor, Psy. D.
In my youth, I tried to cut corners when it came to pulling weeds. I wanted the instant gratification of getting paid, but it didn't matter if I tried to fool my father or myself; the weeds would...
Why Most Spiritual Coaches and Healers Struggle Financially By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.
Dear spiritual wellness and healing practitioners, there's a reason many of you might be facing financial challenges. Despite justifying your struggles with spiritual narratives or alternative...
The Importance of Inner Work in Relationships: Understanding Love and Connection By Ray Doktor, Psy. D.
Have you ever had an intimate partner to whom you've shown clear signs of love? These signs can include frequently telling them you love them, going out of your way to ensure their comfort, taking...
Breaking Free from the Shackles of False Presuppositions by Ray Doktor, Psy. D.
False presuppositions, deeply ingrained in our psyche, bind us to a self-imposed imprisonment of limited perceptions and unrealized potential. These erroneous beliefs, often handed down from...
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